Archive for April, 2009

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Looking For Input – Comments Appreciated!

April 29, 2009

I need to hear from those of you in Children’s Ministry and those of you at my church. 

I need to hold an informational meeting/training for everyone who plans to be either a large group or small group leader (for our Preschool and Children’s Ministries) in the fall.  I’m trying to determine the best time to hold this meeting.  We are transitioning to a new worship schedule on August 23rd which changes the way we do just about everything.  Here are my major questions:

1.  How do I help volunteers understand the urgency of attending this particular meeting?

2. When is the best time to meet? (before school lets out, summer, multiple opportunities)

3.  What are the MOST IMPORTANT areas to cover in this meeting training? (compared to things that could be written, communicated through email, etc.)

4.  Can a video/podcast training effectively take the place of these kinds of meetings? Has anyone successfully implemented podcast training?

I’d love to hear from you! Thanks!

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Celebrating the Mile

April 28, 2009

Something very exciting happened today.  Although it is something in my personal life, it applies to my ministry as well.  Hang with me to see how…..

Today, for the first time in my life, I ran a mile without stopping! Even in high school where we were required to run a mile for the fitness test, I had a strategy of running the straits and walking the curves.  I never actually ran the whole mile without stopping.

At first, I was disappointed.  My goal is to run a 5K.  Eventually I would like to run a marathon.  One mile seems so far from those goals.  When I knew I had to stop running (feeling light-headed, veering off the treadmill, etc.) I was really bummed that I couldn’t run longer, farther, and faster.  The 5K began to seem unattainable.  I left the gym feeling completely discouraged.

As I walked to my car, I suddenly realized – Wait a minute, I just ran a mile! I’ve NEVER done that before! That is worth celebrating!

As I began planning my celebratory breakfast, I thought about my ministry.  I have some 5k goals and  marathon goals.  I realized that there are going to be small, “mile” achievements along the way.  It is easy for me to look at the end and get discouraged with how far I have to go.  I need to remember to celebrate those miles.

So as I complete my “environment” proposal for my pastor, I will celebrate! I’ve never presented him a formal proposal about our ministry space before.  When we transform our first hallway I will celebrate, because we’ve never had anything but beige on the walls before! 

If we don’t take time to celebrate the ”miles,” we may never have the endurance for the marathon.

My bacon was delicious this morning – a breakfast of champions.  That’s how I like to celebrate! ;-)

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Taco Bell

April 27, 2009

This gave our staff a laugh a couple of weeks ago.  I thought I’d share it with you too.

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C3Kids Part V

April 26, 2009

It is difficult at best to try to sum up everything I learned, felt, and experienced at C3Kids. 

Here a few take-aways -

1. A Clearly Communicated Vision Unites and Inspires – I was absolutely amazed at the unity I saw displayed at C3Kids.  They were a little sneaky, but I figured them out! It really didn’t matter what break-out session was being taught.  The same messages were communicated time and time again.  The speakers would constantly refer to the core values.  The examples given regarding the core values were the same across the board, whether the session being taught was Kid-vangelism or myTunes.  Everyone seemed to “own” the vision.  No one appeared to be going through the motions.   You couldn’t differentiate between pastor, staff, volunteer, family member – everyone owned the vision.  Everyone seemed to be personally invested.  That was really amazing to see.  I pray that our church family can begin to own our vision in the same way!

2. Creativity coupled with Know-How Ignites – Add Passion and watch out! – Taking a tour of the Preschool and Children’s areas of Fellowship Church was another amazing experience.  You could walk in any office and wonder, “Am I at a church office, or did I stumble into Disney World?”  Creative is the word of the day over at Fellowship Church.  There are people who know how to do exactly what needs to be done to make Elevate and Elevate Jr. come alive! There are writers, animators, pastors, etc. filling the roles they were created to fill – and bending and stretching from time to time! It makes me wonder – when do we begin writing/producing our own curriculum? I don’t want to reinvent the wheel, but I get inspired seeing “what could be.” Step one – work on our environment!

3.  The 4 Minute Principle – I hope I’m getting this one right – I heard it explained first on the tour, and then referred to frequently.  We have about 4 minutes to make an impression on parents.  Two minutes when they drop off and two minutes when they pick up.  What are the children doing during those times? What does the environment speak? How are we welcoming the children? What are we telling parents without even saying a word? I am going to sit down with some of my team and ask those very questions.  I’m excited to have a “do-able” goal of revamping just 4 minutes.  It’s only 4 minutes, but that 4 minutes will make a huge difference in our ministry!

I’m sure I will think of a million other things to share, but for now this will have to do! I am very thankful for all of the effort Fellowship Kids put into this conference.  I was inspired!

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C3Kids Part IV

April 25, 2009

Wow! I just got home from the conference.  I was worried that I would leave feeling overwhelmed and discouraged after seeing how far we need to go to get our ministry to a new level, but thankfully, I left more inspired than anything.

My notes are still packed up, and it is almost 3am, so I’m going to save more specific info for later.  Here is a really cool thing that happened though.  Pastor Mike Johnson (who is the father of the Elevate curriculum and Pastor of all things children for FC) asked to meet with everyone who twitters after the 2nd session on Friday.  I went down front to meet him, expecting a quick hello – match a name with a face kind of thing.  Instead, when we were all gathered, he invited us (8 of us I believe) to have lunch with him and his family in his office.  We had the opportunity to hear from Mike and to share our own ideas with each other.  It was a wonderful time.

I will really miss being at Orange next week, but I have to admit, I don’t feel like I’m “missing out” after everything I learned and experienced at C3Kids!

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C3Kids Part III

April 24, 2009

Just met Lady Tristen.  The kids will think that is really cool.

The general session this morning was really incredible.  The Preschool Pastor was the speaker.  He talked about 4D – Dream, Design, Develop, Do.  Here are some of the keys:

Dream – The dreamer asks, “What could be?” ex.) Jesus had a dream to make disciples.

Design – The designer will ask, “How will it be?” ex.) The design for Make Disciples – Go, Baptize, Teach – The disciples modified slightly by Showing and Saying 

Develop – The developer will ask, “What is needed for it to be?” ex.) The disciples had to DEVELOP a new way to minister to the widows.  They enlisted the 7 to develop a new way.

Do – The doer asks, “When Can it Begin?” This is when your specialists come in to do what they do best.

More later…….

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C3Kids Conference Part II

April 24, 2009

Yesterday I took a class on “Follow Up.”  I know this is an area that needs improvement in our Children’s Ministry.  I’m not sure if I’m inspired or overwhelmed after hearing how Fellowship Church does it!

Here’s the skinny -

1.Each new guest gets a postcard in the mail that can be redeemed for a prize upon the child’s return.  The guest’s parents also get a phone call thanking them for letting their child come, asking if they have any questions, and asking if they would like prayer for anything.

2. “Misser” calls are also made at 3 weeks and 6 weeks.  If a child has missed 3 weeks in a row, there is a “misser” call made to the family telling them their child has been missed, and asking if they can pray for them in any way.  The same thing happens at 6 weeks.  If the phone is disconnected or there is a wrong number, an email is sent.  If the email is kicked back or not on file a card is sent.

3.  “Center Stage” calls – Everyone was called to tell about the new series beginning (Center Stage) as well as the Pastor’s new Sermon Series. 

4. Regular attender calls – Anyone who had 60% attendance over the last 8 weeks gets a call.  They thank the parents for bringing their children so faithfully, and ask if they have any prayer requests.

5. “Serious” prayer requests are also given follow up phone calls.

6. Any child who has expressed interest in becoming a Christian or who has recently prayed to receive Christ gets a “Kid Faith” phone call.  These calls tell the family about the upcoming “Kid Faith” class (which is required for baptism) and baptism service.  The parents and children attend the class together.

7.  Service recruitment follow up calls – An example given – After a father/son retreat weekend, several fathers were noticed as having tremendous leadership skills.  If those fathers were not currently serving, they were called and told that they were noticed during the retreat, and wouldn’t they love to use those leadership skills to impact children for Christ?

The girl who taught the Follow Up class says she makes about 80 phone calls a week.  She devotes Thursday afternoon to the calls (except first time guest calls) for about 3 hours.  All of the staff (and this is a mighty large staff) shares the phone call load.  No man is an island at Fellowship Church.  There are scripts created for every kind of call.

Besides phone calls, small group leaders are also asked to write one note to someone who was in their group before they leave.  They give the note with the child’s full name on it to a staffer who addresses, stamps, and mails it on Monday. 

Each child also receives a birthday card from the staff, even if they only came one time during the year.

Like I said – the information is very inspiring and helpful, but also a little overwhelming.  I’m going to implement some of these ideas now, and save some for the fall when our entire program changes.  Since I only have 2 part time staff in my department, I’m going to need to enlist some volunteers to share the call load.  We have a tremendous number of guests who come through our doors, so the calls could make a real difference.  I’ve called here and there, sent notes here and there, but not with the strategy and planning required to be effective.  So much to do!

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C3Kids Conference

April 23, 2009

Well, I’m here in Grapevine, TX at Fellowship Church attending the C3Kids Conference.  Why am I here after all of my excitement over Orange? Simple.  We are using the Elevate Curriculum produced by Fellowship Church in our Preschool and Children’s Ministry.  I love everything about Orange and miss being there next week terribly, but I felt like I needed to come here instead.  Our church is going through so many changes right now.  I hated to add yet another change (curriculum) on top of it.

For all of my pining for Orange, I am enjoying the Conference here in Grapevine so far.  It is clear that this church thrives on creativity.  There is great production value in every detail.  From the music (not even muzac) piped in through outdoor ground speakers that look like little planters, to the disney-like music/announcements piped in the children’s building.  You feel like you are a guest and like something special and exciting is awaiting you.

The crew here at Fellowship has really made an effort to make everyone feel welcome, and no one on the team appears exempt from this task! I think we were greeted by at least 4 sets of people on our way in.  Sinage is everywhere, and I’m constantly being smiled at, told hello, and asked if I need anything.  These people have caught the vision of treating people like a guest!

We have been to 2 general sessions and lunch so far.  The theme is “Heros.”  The first session focused on the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.  When it got to the firey furnace part, a fire even appeared on the stage.  The second session focused on the enemies of a super hero.  We listened to the story of Nehemiah and were reminded to live a life of obedience, live a life of Prayer, live a life of patience, and live a life ready for action.

My first breakout session is about Follow Up.  I’m looking forward to that.  I know that I need to develop that in our ministries.

One interesting thing – we were all sent an email asking us to submit pictures of our ministries, children worshipping, volunteers serving, and of any missions work we have done.  I sent my pics off, not knowing what they would be used for if used at all.  Most of the pictures are part of a constant slide show going on a couple of screens.  Two of my pictures were actually printed and are being displayed side by side in picture frames on a display! One is of me holding a baby in Uganda.  The other is of Todd kneeling down with several children in Uganda.  I hope Todd doesn’t mind! Cool, huh? I keep standing by my picture, waiting to be recognized, but nothing so far.

Off to my breakout! I’ll write more later!

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